Because, every man is not respectful, confident, well-mannered, stylish and classy, in a single word – “well-born”.
Being a gentleman is not a genetic trait or something that you get from your parents. It’s a lifestyle!
So, I wrote this guide to help you become a gentleman, that is well-respected and honored. This guidebook is full of actionable resources to become a modern gentleman.
Who Is This Guide For?
If you’ve ever thought – “How is it like to be a gentleman like The Great Gatsby, or Professor Layton, or Kingsman?” Then, this guide is for you.
Using this guide, you will learn basics of being a gentleman, how he behaves around others, dresses, communicates, maintain relationships, know how to dine, and what makes him different than other men out there.
There are dozens and dozens of things that you can sit down and do right now to make your life more respectful and classy.
Each chapter contains several links to hand-picked blog posts that improve your overall behavior, style, etiquette and everything that makes a man classy.
This is going to be amazing.
The Modern Gentleman Today: How the Game Has Evolved
Confusion about the words “gentleman” and “lady” is also evident, as they are not addressed or referred properly these days.
For our ancestors, “gentle” meant “well-born, belonging to a family of position”. The English word derives from the Latin “gentilis”, meaning “race” or “family”.
British members were called gentleman right from their birth, but birth alone cannot make a man a gentleman. New growing elites attempted to designate as gentlemen as a natural consequence of their growing wealth and influence.
In its best use, in modern usage, gentleman involves a certain superior standard of conduct, due to the quote – “that self-respect and intellectual refinement which manifest themselves in unrestrained yet delicate manners.”
In simple words, being a gentleman means treating others, especially women, in a respectful manner and not taking advantage or pushing others into doing things he chooses not to do.
With that said, I would like to introduce you to…
The Ultimate List of the
Web’s Best Gentleman Resources
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Relationships are an important part of a man’s life, where communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
A gentleman knows how to maintain freshness in his relationships. He is a passionate lover and knows how to seduce a woman. At the same time, he knows that his vision is as much important as his relationship with his woman.
A gentleman also understands others’ situation, instead of trying to hurt them back. He is there to help his close friends and family, whenever they need him. He is present whenever someone is suffering or celebrating.
All it takes for a person to judge the kind of person you are. And those assumptions are mostly based on your overall looks and body language.
The impression can be judged on two kinds of characteristics – either genetically or non-genetically.
Non-genetic characteristics include your outfit, hygiene, body language and your mood, which can be improved. Genetic characteristics are the ones which you can’t do anything about. Some people don’t like Blacks, disabled-people, Asians, etc.
The good news is that you can learn how to make an incredible first impression, like a gentleman.