There are some facts that every man should know before getting into relationships with women. Facts that people hardly talk about.
1. Whatever You Think You Know About Women is Probably Wrong
Chances are, your thinking is based on what the society has made you believe.
What women do, think, and should do is wrongly interpreted all over the media. Norms have been created, either by the law or culture, that supports women instead of men.
It’s time for you to forget what the society says. Learn everything from scratch and find the truth from the bottom-up.
Some facts you may already know, some are new and some are hard to believe. Yet, they are valid on most of the women. But you know, exceptions are always there!
2. It’s a Battle, a Game
Treat your relationships like a game. It’s important to be good at it. If you suck, you lose.
Your actions dictate your future and you are the captain of the ship. Most importantly, you’re a man and she expects you to act like one (will expand on that later).
In short, whatever happens between you two is because of you. Hence, it is your responsibility to direct it the right way.
If she wants, can’t resist, fantasize about you, etc., you are playing well.
If she’s angry, not attracted anymore, doesn’t want to spend time with you, etc., you’re not playing well.
3. There is No “The One”
Now is the time I tell you the biggest lie. Take movies, magazines, TV shows, or any other romance novel, it’s everywhere.
The crazy part — people believe it. And they fantasize.
No such thing as the one or soul mate or she is the perfect one I’d ever need in my life actually exists, you dumbass. She isn’t looking for you at an unrealistically awesome and fun place when you’re on a vacation with your friends.
Although, it is possible to have many the ones in your life.
You may find a woman (or many women) who is compatible, understanding, trustable and at the end of the day, it just works.
That’s all there is.
Ignore those stupid theories. They’re all myths.
4. All Women Are Crazy
They are all out of their minds. They make no sense, at times, even to themselves.
See, a woman’s mind is an infinitely massive emotional trap where everything is at random. What she thinks will not make any sense to you.
So, avoid using your logic.
I’d better avoid thinking about what she is thinking because it will eat my brain and I will end up having nothing in hand. It’s impossible to assume.
Women are so crazy that they don’t even know what they’re supposed to do. Sometimes, women hate being women.
Understand that women are emotional creatures. They prioritize feelings over logic to think and make decisions.
5. Women Don’t Love You the Way You Do
Be brutally honest and ask yourself:
Do you truly love her (or ever loved a woman with all of you)? Yes?
Did you receive the same amount of love back? No?
I know, but this is the hard reality.
Your woman loves your child (if you have) the way you love her. Probably because that child is (more of) her own creation.
And you expect that amount of love you received from your mother.
See, your mother is the only woman who will love you for you, not your power.
You woman might say that she loves you, but she may not.
If you truly love a woman, it is hard for you to break up. It breaks you from the inside from having a thought of break up or a divorce. But for her, it’s not the same.
If she wants to leave, that’s because you are not good enough (you are the captain of your relationship).
6. Women are Loyal to Your Power, Not You
Women want to be with a man of power.
Power means your ability to bring change or change people’s mind around you. More power, bigger change.
It means more money, respect, freedom, and love. Her loyalty and trust increase with your power and experience.
No matter what people say, but this is the reality:
Money is makeup on a man. It increases your chances to date better (or more) women. It does not make you powerful, but it is the source of power.
Most men agree that without having enough money or exceptionally attractive personality, it is harder to date women.
For you, money (and success) must be more important than women. Chasing money means you value yourself and your mission more than anything. Chase money, not women.
By the way, it makes sense. Why would any woman want a weak/broke-ass man?
You must become powerful to be loved.
7. If You Need Her, She Does Not Want You
See, there are two types of men – the needy man, and the opposite.
The needy man is overly desperate, extra available, and makes her his mission. He treats her like a goddess. He needs her approval and will abandon anything important for her.
If you’re a needy man, sooner or later, you will lose her.
Here’s the deal:
If you don’t value yourself, then nobody else will.
This overly-desperate-and-always-available man is not what she wants. Women like to be put on a pedestal, but that does not excite her.
Like I said earlier, women want to be with a man who values himself more than anybody else.
Women like to chase. They want men who are not easily available, who are not easy to get committed with.
And that chase excites them. If he is desperately available, there is no chase. No chase, no fun.
Be an irresistible and mysterious man, someone with integrity, or else she will use your desperate behavior for her own benefit (will get on that in a moment).
8. She Wants the Final Product, Not a Work in Progress
Women are picky. They generally want to be on the safe side when it comes to long-term relationships. Being with a successful and stable man is better than a broke guy.
Also, nobody wants to hear about your struggles and failures. That’s boring. She wants to hear about your successes.
If you’re not in the top 10-20% of men, you don’t exist. However, men of power are generally found in the top 10% of men.
Dating a struggling man is too risky, for two reasons:
First, he can’t serve her and her kids’ needs. Second, watching him become successful will make her insecure of losing the power that she had when he was struggling.
It’s funny that men usually want women who were there during the failures and struggles. If that’s the case, keep her.
9. Women Memorize Better
Brains of both genders are programmed differently.
Women are better at remembering things due to the differences in the brain structure. Because women’s brains are more functionally interconnected than men’s.
This is the reason why females perform better than males in the school exams (school exams test your memory, not knowledge).
Whereas, males perform better in the aptitude and logical reasoning tests (will get on that in a moment).
Men have a harder time remembering dates, objects like keys, wallet, etc., and past memories. Women are good at it.
Never think that she’ll forget what you said/did that changed her mood, or maybe offended her. She might forgive you for your mistakes but she never forgets.
10. Female Logic
A woman’s logic is entirely based on her emotions, which are highly volatile. Her mind prioritizes feelings over logic.
Women live in the moment. They jump from one emotional state to the other and utter words without considering the outcomes.
You’ll notice their spontaneous behavior in the arguments, where they usually have weak reasoning.
While being criticized, they make every effort to ignore the logic and make it least effective. Instead, they’ll do their best in exaggerating foolish observations and even produce issues from the dead to win their argument.
It’s usually impossible to beat them.
Women hardly mature, yet only get pickier and experienced, as they age. There is not much of a difference between girls and women, the way boys and men have.
Most women are devoid of qualities such as self-awareness, thoughtfulness, critical thinking, creative problem solving, and so on.
Men, on the other side, prioritize their logical mind, not emotions. You must be least affected by the emotional drama that women tend to thrive on.
11. Repeated Favors Become Obligations
If you’re needy and desperate, chances are you will do almost anything for her. Things you haven’t done before and the things that you will never do for others — for the sake of impressing her.
But, here’s a twist:
A favor done more than three times become a habit, an obligation. It is no longer a favor rather an unspoken duty.
If you’ve paid for the restaurant bills a few times, in the beginning, she expects you to pay for the next time. If you don’t, she’ll think you’re not capable enough and will victimize you. Good luck with some emotional drama.
Learn to say no. Your time and money are more important.
12. Agreements with Women Don’t Mean Anything
As I’ve already said, women are emotional creatures. What they say now, doesn’t mean a damn later.
Ignore what she says she’ll do, watch what she does (will get on that later).
Also in relationships, whatever you agree in the beginning doesn’t mean shit later. Her emotions change from time to time, so do her requirements.
You didn’t sign a legal contract with her that she has to stick with.
13. If You Can’t Help Her Now, She Does Not Care If You Helped Before
Doesn’t matter how much of an assistance you were in the past if you can’t be of any assistance now. Help her or else give her a reason for unnecessary drama.
Did you pay her rent? Did you pay for her college fees? Did she move in your house? Don’t tell me you both have a joint bank account!
Now, her demands are on another level and you don’t want to pay? And that’s annoying her? Ultimately leads you (or her) to leave.
I’d better be someone who has her answers, can direct her the right path, but avoids to do things for her (right from the beginning).
Also, women are great caretakers. Ask her to do favors for you on a regular basis. To prove herself a good caretaker, she will do her best.
And eventually, she will think more about you.
14. Women Love to Argue & Do Whatever It Takes to Win
Women don’t care what’s right and wrong. No matter what, they want to win and prove they are right.
They have a need to create drama out of anything. Their food will not digest if they didn’t have something dramatic in the last twenty-four hours.
An argument serves the purpose. They will change sides, disprove the fact, and thrive on drama. This also makes them better liars as they’ll even lie in the court if necessary.
Drama allows them to push up an agenda and weaponizes emotions.
Reacting to such drama degrades your value and puts more weight to their opinions. If you argue, you’ll never win. It is your problem that you want to win by arguing a woman because you have a need to make sense.
Fighting with emotions is pointless. You’re pushing a brick wall.
15. Actions Barely Resembles Their Words
Like I said earlier, ignore what she speaks, watch her actions.
Women are spontaneous and they speak whatever comes to their mind, without solid reasoning. Not like average men, we think and evaluate before saying anything.
If she says she’ll go to the gym, you better ignore that. She isn’t going to the gym unless there is an absolute need. Do you think getting fit and in shape are strong enough reasons for her to actually take the pain?
If there isn’t something that affects her on a personal level, she is not interested.
Women don’t rationalize before they speak. They blurt out words which they don’t have an idea themselves.
They are the biggest liars and they lie more than anybody else. So much so that they lie about their looks (height, makeup, breast size, etc.) with an incredible frequency.
Their spontaneity often makes them less credible. Not keeping your words makes you look bad, which is bad for your status.
But, at the same time, they’re still able to maintain their status.
Women spin things. They will get you on defense, use your words, constantly question you and ignore the criticism directed at them as something not worthy of validation.
This makes them better manipulators than average men.
Your logical statements make no sense to them. In turn, they’ll add a subtle spin, use your words against you and make you look dumb.
16. Women Pretend they Don’t Want Sex
Both genders are similar when it comes to sex. There is no such thing as “she does not think about sex”. Women want sex as much as men do.
See, the question is not if she’s a whore, rather if she’s not.
In fact, they’d happily become a whore if they had a chance. They don’t because they know that doing so will decrease their value, which is not seen as a good thing.
Instead, they’ll choose to be a whore and not admit it (and deceive).
While in a relationship, they’ll say they don’t want it, but things change once they get in the bedroom.
Want to know why?
Because they think that men need to chase them for sex. They value themselves higher than men and considers sex a favor. If you want sex then beg for it.
Women know that asking for sex will make them look cheap. So, they pretend they are not really into you, but in reality, they had started thinking about you the moment you first shook hands.
Also, she wants to prove that she had fewer partners than she actually had. She’ll portray herself as a virgin so you assume she only had sex a few times.
17. Some Women Have Nothing More to Offer Than Their Bodies
Do you think they beautify to attract men?
Yes, women crave for attention. They may dress provocatively, put on makeup, and enhance their body shape — primarily to put other women down.
When in public, notice any woman and see who she checks out the most. You’ll notice that she is more interested in women than men.
The need to look better than other women leads them to focus on their looks more than anything.
It’s funny, they price themselves higher than men (when it comes to sex) when they actually have nothing else to offer.
Less attractive women often feel jealous of beautiful ones. So they work harder in other fields like knowledge and skills, to compensate and improve their social status.
Hence, chances of her being dumb are higher if she’s beautiful (sometimes).
18. Women Use Beauty & Sex to Manipulate Men
This must have happened to you:
When you see a beautiful woman, you automatically gave her more importance. She seems more dependable and trustable. You made her your priority and everybody else started to fade.
Read and understand this: beauty does not mean good character!
This is the problem with men that women take advantage of. Beauty adds another layer to their process of manipulating us. Thus, they objectify themselves and use their sexuality to get what they want.
If her beauty makes you trust her, then you’re an idiot by definition.
19. She Wants a Bad Guy as much as a Provider
Women usually prefer a provider to be on the safe side. He can provide the resources she and her kids need.
But, women find bad guys more sexually attractive. He is a mysterious guy, who may choose to not pay for her bills in spite of having plenty of resources.
The provider often fails to keep her woman sexually excited. She tries to change the provider, makes accusations, thrives on drama and finally wishes to abandon him.
The provider fails.
Women want a provider to pay their bills and a bad guy to fulfill sexual desires.
20. Women are Not Good Leaders
Women hate taking responsibilities and they hate to admit their faults. But still, they’ll become leaders and do things that require leadership qualities, in which they’re actually terrible at.
Leadership requires logical, analytical and critical thinking skills. Women suck at these, big time.
A woman in power, in most cases, is responsible for the loss/destruction of others and herself. People working under her are barely happy. These women at the top are exhausted, frazzled and irritated.
The decisions made are based on her feelings and often to prove — yes, women can take big decisions! They can show themselves as tough-minded and honest, where they scarcely possess the qualities required.
Women favor women. If she’s in power, she’ll hire her sisters-in-law and start firing men. She’ll promote women and will get your job in danger.
That’s why most female leaders have never been and will never be successful. Because they are not programmed to lead.
Women are great caretakers, which means they have the ability to throw away the entire enterprise out of whack. They’re not good at closing big deals.
Women are appointed mostly because of their high scores and education (or memory). But, an educated woman does not mean an intellectual woman. Most of them are vapid.
For some reason, if a woman is doing well, probably because men are backing her up.
21. Women are Followers
They’re not good leaders, yet they follow power and trends.
It is in their nature to fall for the follower role. If a powerful person or many people are saying something, they’ll follow (without proper evaluation).
Women are followers in relationships. They are good at supporting and care-taking, so it works for them. At the same time, they rely on the decisions made by the man.
At this point, if the relationship is not going well, you are doing a bad job, not her. Because she is following your decisions. Hence, it becomes your responsibility to make her satisfied.
Most women don’t actually agree that they are followers. Instead, they’ll say that a relationship works equally.
When closing an important business deal, they’d prefer having a man, a good leader.
22. Dominant Women are Never Happy
Women who are better educated, have bigger jobs and have achieved positions in life that solely men do, in absence of a strong male partner, tend to become dominant and have a narcissistic behavior.
Here’s the deal:
Men are programmed to dominate and women to be submissive. It’s in our DNA. Disproving these natural patterns results in bad future.
Usually, a dominant woman is a result of her upbringing and relationship with the partner.
If she is more dominant, she will have more power over you. You will be a weak man in her eyes and will never be happy.
If you are tough she will become soft, if you are soft, she will become tough.
23. A Quality Woman is Made, Not Born
Quality women are about 10% of the total, the way real men are.
You can call her a quality woman if she is talented, intelligent, least sexually active, has a good nature and does not hate men. Also described as emotionally stable.
See, all girls are born the same, but their relationship with parents decides their future. A good father-daughter relationship is important in shaping into what we call an emotionally stable woman.
A good father is a strong male figure, compassionate, sophisticated and at the same time have a special place for her. He raises and shapes her in his own way, into a quality woman.
She then wants to marry a strong man, like her father, who she can trust.
However, finding such a woman can make your life easier because you don’t have to start from the scratch, but to maintain what her father has made.
If you don’t keep up to her standards, she will not respect you and will always compare you with her father. The absence of a strong partner can actually turn her into a bad woman.
In some societies, many girls have had several sexual partners. This destroys her on an emotional level and this instability makes her less capable of keeping up a long-term relationship.
The reason being — absence or weak fathers.
Women and men are different. We differ not only by our body structure but also by our actions and behaviors.
As responsible humans, it is important for us (men) to know the facts about women that the media likes to ignore. Instead, advertise the twisted and false information.
Honestly, we can’t actually fully understand women, but we can look at some common patterns to better understand their nature.
If you’re unmarried/single, you might be thinking about finding a quality woman. However, most of the above-mentioned facts may not apply to a quality woman.
Which fact surprised you the most? Have you found a quality woman in your life? Do you know any other unbelievable fact about women that you’d like to share?
This is the first part of the guide series: Master Relationships with Women. Read the next part about approaching and attracting women.